drbd: flush drbd work queue before invalidate/invalidate remote

If you do back to back wait-sync/invalidate on a Primary in a tight loop,
during application IO load, you could trigger a race:
  kernel: block drbd6: FIXME going to queue 'set_n_write from StartingSync'
    but 'write from resync_finished' still pending?

Fix this by changing the order of the drbd_queue_work() and
the wake_up() in dec_ap_pending(), and adding the additional
drbd_flush_workqueue() before requesting the full sync.

Signed-off-by: Philipp Reisner <philipp.reisner@linbit.com>
Signed-off-by: Lars Ellenberg <lars.ellenberg@linbit.com>