drbd: Replace conn_get_by_name() with drbd_find_resource()

So far, connections and resources always come in pairs, but in the future with
multiple connections per resource, the names will stick with the resources.

Signed-off-by: Andreas Gruenbacher <agruen@linbit.com>
Signed-off-by: Philipp Reisner <philipp.reisner@linbit.com>