xfs: cleanup dmapi macros in the umount path

Stop the flag saving as we never mangle those in the unmount path, and
hide all the weird arguents to the dmapi code inside the
XFS_SEND_PREUNMOUNT / XFS_SEND_UNMOUNT macros.

Signed-off-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>
Reviewed-by: Dave Chinner <david@fromorbit.com>
Signed-off-by: Alex Elder <aelder@sgi.com>