[UDP]: Allow users to configure UDP-Lite.

Let's give users an option for disabling UDP-Lite (~4K).

old:
|    text	   data	    bss	    dec	    hex	filename
|  286498	  12432	   6072	 305002	  4a76a	net/ipv4/built-in.o
|  193830	   8192	   3204	 205226	  321aa	net/ipv6/ipv6.o

new (without UDP-Lite):
|    text	   data	    bss	    dec	    hex	filename
|  284086	  12136	   5432	 301654	  49a56	net/ipv4/built-in.o
|  191835	   7832	   3076	 202743	  317f7	net/ipv6/ipv6.o

Signed-off-by: YOSHIFUJI Hideaki <yoshfuji@linux-ipv6.org>