[media] v4l2-fh: add v4l2_fh_is_singular

Several drivers need to do something when the first filehandle is opened
or the last filehandle is closed. Most implement some use count mechanism,
but if they use v4l2_fh, then you can also just check if this is the only
filehandle for the device node. A simple helper function can do this.

Signed-off-by: Hans Verkuil <hverkuil@xs4all.nl>
Signed-off-by: Mauro Carvalho Chehab <mchehab@redhat.com>