rbd: have rbd_add_parse_args() return error

Change the interface to rbd_add_parse_args() so it returns an
error code rather than a pointer.  Return the ceph_options result
via a pointer whose address is passed as an argument.

Signed-off-by: Alex Elder <elder@inktank.com>
Reviewed-by: Josh Durgin <josh.durgin@inktank.com>