xfs: more reserved blocks fixups

This mangles the reserved blocks counts a little more.

1) add a helper function for the default reserved count
2) add helper functions to save/restore counts on ro/rw
3) save/restore reserved blocks on freeze/thaw
4) disallow changing reserved count while readonly

V2: changed field name to match Dave's changes

Signed-off-by: Eric Sandeen <sandeen@sandeen.net>
Signed-off-by: Alex Elder <aelder@sgi.com>