Update the REQ and REP messages to support XRC connection setup
according to the XRC Annex. Several existing fields must be set to 0 or
1 when connecting XRC QPs, and a reserved field is changed to an
extended transport type.
Signed-off-by: Sean Hefty <sean.hefty@intel.com> Signed-off-by: Roland Dreier <roland@purestorage.com>