vhost-net: check the support of mergeable buffer outside the receive loop

No need to check the support of mergeable buffer inside the recevie
loop as the whole handle_rx()_xx is in the read critical region.  So
this patch move it ahead of the receiving loop.

Signed-off-by: Jason Wang <jasowang@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Michael S. Tsirkin <mst@redhat.com>