ceph: explicitly specify page alignment in network messages

The alignment used for reading data into or out of pages used to be taken
from the data_off field in the message header.  This only worked as long
as the page alignment matched the object offset, breaking direct io to
non-page aligned offsets.

Instead, explicitly specify the page alignment next to the page vector
in the ceph_msg struct, and use that instead of the message header (which
probably shouldn't be trusted).  The alloc_msg callback is responsible for
filling in this field properly when it sets up the page vector.

Signed-off-by: Sage Weil <sage@newdream.net>