ethtool: make .get_dump_data() harder to misuse by drivers

As the patch "bnx2x: remove zeroing of dump data buffer" showed,
it is too easy implement .get_dump_data incorrectly in a driver.

Let's make sure drivers cannot get confused by userspace requesting
a too big dump.

Also WARN if the driver sets dump->len to something weird and make
sure the length reported to userspace is the actual length of data
copied to userspace.

Signed-off-by: Michal Schmidt <mschmidt@redhat.com>
Reviewed-by: Ben Hutchings <ben@decadent.org.uk>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>