isci: Change the phy control and link reset interface for HW reasons.

There is an apparent HW lockup caused when the PE is disabled while there
is an outstanding TC in progress.  This change puts the link into OOB to
force the TC to end before the PE is disabled.

Signed-off-by: Jeff Skirvin <jeffrey.d.skirvin@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Dan Williams <dan.j.williams@intel.com>