drbd: Fix a race condition that can lead to a BUG()

If the preconditions for a state change change after the wait_event() we
might hit the BUG() statement in conn_set_state().

With holding the spin_lock while evaluating the condition AND until the
actual state change we ensure the the preconditions can not change anymore.

Signed-off-by: Philipp Reisner <philipp.reisner@linbit.com>
Signed-off-by: Lars Ellenberg <lars.ellenberg@linbit.com>