IPoIB: Handle 4K IB MTU for UD (datagram) mode

This patch enables IPoIB to use 4K UD messages (when the underlying
device and fabrics support a 4K MTU) by using two scatter buffers when
PAGE_SIZE is less than or equal to thhe HCA IB MTU size.  The first
buffer is for IPoIB header + GRH header, and the second buffer is the
IPoIB payload, which is 4K-4.

Signed-off-by: Shirley Ma <xma@us.ibm.com>
Signed-off-by: Roland Dreier <rolandd@cisco.com>