ocfs2: Add "preferred slot" mount option

ocfs2 will attempt to assign the node the slot# provided in the mount
option. Failure to assign the preferred slot is not an error. This small
feature can be useful for automated testing.

Signed-off-by: Sunil Mushran <sunil.mushran@oracle.com>
Signed-off-by: Mark Fasheh <mark.fasheh@oracle.com>