DM: Fix device mapper topology stacking

Make DM use bdev_stack_limits() function so that partition offsets get
taken into account when calculating alignment.  Clarify stacking
warnings.

Also remove obsolete clearing of final alignment_offset and misalignment
flag.

Signed-off-by: Martin K. Petersen <martin.petersen@oracle.com>
Signed-off-by: Mike Snitzer <snitzer@redhat.com>
Cc: Alasdair G. Kergon <agk@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Jens Axboe <jens.axboe@oracle.com>