libceph: record message data length

Keep track of the length of the data portion for a message in a
separate field in the ceph_msg structure.  This information has
been maintained in wire byte order in the message header, but
that's going to change soon.

Signed-off-by: Alex Elder <elder@inktank.com>
Reviewed-by: Josh Durgin <josh.durgin@inktank.com>