rbd: make rbd_dev_destroy() match rbd_dev_create()

Currently, rbd_dev_destroy() does more than just the inverse of what
rbd_dev_create() does.  Stop doing that, and move the two extra
things it does into the three call sites.

Signed-off-by: Alex Elder <elder@inktank.com>
Reviewed-by: Josh Durgin <josh.durgin@inktank.com>