mac80211: fix TX aggregation session timer

In commit 12d3952fc4a1cd96234bc7023bf7eefeb0bb6355
("mac80211: optimize aggregation session timeout handling")
two bugs were introduced:
 1) RCU usage was completely broken since no locks are held
 2) the timer must not rearm when agg session is stopping

Reported-and-tested-by: Larry Finger <Larry.Finger@lwfinger.net>
Cc: Felix Fietkau <nbd@openwrt.org>
Signed-off-by: Johannes Berg <johannes.berg@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: John W. Linville <linville@tuxdriver.com>