RDS/IB: Improve RDS protocol version checking

RDS on IB uses privdata to do protocol version negotiation. Apparently
the IB stack will return a larger privdata buffer than the struct we were
expecting. Just to be extra-sure, this patch adds some checks in this area.

Signed-off-by: Andy Grover <andy.grover@oracle.com>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>