drm/i915: wait for actual vblank, not just 20ms

Waiting for a hard coded 20ms isn't always enough to make sure a vblank
period has actually occurred, so add code to make sure we really have
passed through a vblank period (or that the pipe is off when disabling).

This prevents problems with mode setting and link training, and seems to
fix a bug like https://bugs.freedesktop.org/show_bug.cgi?id=29278, but
on an HP 8440p instead.  Hopefully also fixes
https://bugs.freedesktop.org/show_bug.cgi?id=29141.

Signed-off-by: Jesse Barnes <jbarnes@virtuousgeek.org>
Signed-off-by: Eric Anholt <eric@anholt.net>