[SCSI] isci: Fix task management for SMP, SATA and on dev remove.

libsas uses the LLDD abort task interface to handle I/O timeouts
in the SATA/STP and SMP discovery paths, so this change will terminate
STP/SMP requests. Also, if the device is gone, the lldd will prevent
libsas from further escalations in the error handler.

Signed-off-by: Jeff Skirvin <jeffrey.d.skirvin@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Dan Williams <dan.j.williams@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: James Bottomley <JBottomley@Parallels.com>