rbd: fix up the layering warning message

A warning gets spewed for any image being probed, including parent
images.  Set up a condition such that the warning message only gets
printed for the image being mapped, not any of its parents.

Also, I didn't like the way the warning ended up being so long.
Make it a terse warning instead.  People experimenting with layering
will know what the message means.

This is part of:
    http://tracker.ceph.com/issues/4867

Signed-off-by: Alex Elder <elder@inktank.com>
Reviewed-by: Josh Durgin <josh.durgin@inktank.com>