drm: Use a nondestructive mode for output detect when polling (v2)

v2: Julien Cristau pointed out that @nondestructive results in
double-negatives and confusion when trying to interpret the parameter,
so use @force instead. Much easier to type as well. ;-)

And fix the miscompilation of vmgfx reported by Sedat Dilek.

Signed-off-by: Chris Wilson <chris@chris-wilson.co.uk>
Cc: stable@kernel.org
Signed-off-by: Dave Airlie <airlied@redhat.com>