nfsd: add an operation for unhashing a stateowner

Allow stateowners to be unhashed and destroyed when the last reference
is put. The unhashing must be idempotent. In a future patch, we'll add
some locking around it, but for now it's only protected by the
client_mutex.

Signed-off-by: Jeff Layton <jlayton@primarydata.com>
Signed-off-by: J. Bruce Fields <bfields@redhat.com>

diff --cc fs/nfsd/nfs4state.c
Simple merge

diff --cc fs/nfsd/state.h
Simple merge