[media] v4l2-ctrls: add a notify callback

Sometimes platform/bridge drivers need to be notified when a control from
a sub-device changes value. In order to support this a notify callback was
added.
[dheitmueller@kernellabs.com: fix merge conflict in v4l2-ctrls.c]

Signed-off-by: Hans Verkuil <hans.verkuil@cisco.com>
Signed-off-by: Devin Heitmueller <dheitmueller@kernellabs.com>
Signed-off-by: Mauro Carvalho Chehab <mchehab@redhat.com>