drbd: add some more explicit drbd_md_sync

It sometimes may take a while for the after state change work to be
scheduled, which does drbd_md_sync. At convenient places, we should do
explicit drbd_md_sync to have the new state information on disk as soon
as possible.

Signed-off-by: Philipp Reisner <philipp.reisner@linbit.com>
Signed-off-by: Lars Ellenberg <lars.ellenberg@linbit.com>