dccp: Per-socket initialisation of feature negotiation

This provides feature-negotiation initialisation for both DCCP sockets and
DCCP request_sockets, to support feature negotiation during connection setup.

It also resolves a FIXME regarding the congestion control initialisation.

Thanks to Wei Yongjun for help with the IPv6 side of this patch.

Signed-off-by: Gerrit Renker <gerrit@erg.abdn.ac.uk>
Acked-by: Ian McDonald <ian.mcdonald@jandi.co.nz>