scsi: convert host_busy to atomic_t

Avoid taking the host-wide host_lock to check the per-host queue limit.
Instead we do an atomic_inc_return early on to grab our slot in the queue,
and if necessary decrement it after finishing all checks.

Signed-off-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>
Reviewed-by: Martin K. Petersen <martin.petersen@oracle.com>
Reviewed-by: Hannes Reinecke <hare@suse.de>
Reviewed-by: Webb Scales <webbnh@hp.com>
Acked-by: Jens Axboe <axboe@kernel.dk>
Tested-by: Bart Van Assche <bvanassche@acm.org>
Tested-by: Robert Elliott <elliott@hp.com>