drbd: Rename --dry-run to --tentative

drbdadm already has a --dry-run option, so this option cannot directly be
passed through to drbdsetup.  Rename the drbdsetup option to resolve this
conflict.

For backward compatibility, make --dry-run an alias of --tentative.

Signed-off-by: Philipp Reisner <philipp.reisner@linbit.com>
Signed-off-by: Lars Ellenberg <lars.ellenberg@linbit.com>