isci: Fixed RNC bug that lost the suspension or resumption during destroy

This fix corrects the saving of resume parameters when the destruction
of the RNC has already been directed, and makes sure not to overwrite
the RNC destruction callbacks.

Signed-off-by: Jeff Skirvin <jeffrey.d.skirvin@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Dan Williams <dan.j.williams@intel.com>