RDMA/ocrdma: Fixed GID table for vlan and events

1. Fix reporting GID table addition events.
2. Enable vlan based GID entries only when VLAN is enabled at compile
   time (test CONFIG_VLAN_8021Q / CONFIG_VLAN_8021Q_MODULE).

Signed-off-by: Parav Pandit <parav.pandit@emulex.com>
Signed-off-by: Roland Dreier <roland@purestorage.com>