ipvs: convert locks used in persistence engines

Allow the readers to use RCU lock and for
PE module registrations use global mutex instead of
spinlock. All PE modules need to use synchronize_rcu
in their module exit handler.

Signed-off-by: Julian Anastasov <ja@ssi.bg>
Signed-off by: Hans Schillstrom <hans@schillstrom.com>
Signed-off-by: Simon Horman <horms@verge.net.au>