firewire: core: use separate timeout for each transaction

Using a single timeout for all transaction that need to be flushed does
not work if the submission of new transactions can defer the timeout
indefinitely into the future.  We need to have timeouts that do not
change due to other transactions; the simplest way to do this is with a
separate timer for each transaction.

Signed-off-by: Clemens Ladisch <clemens@ladisch.de>
Signed-off-by: Stefan Richter <stefanr@s5r6.in-berlin.de> (+ one lockdep annotation)