drbd: bail out if a config requrest is over-determined, and not matching

We have resources resp. connections, volumes, and minor numbers.
A config request may specifies all three of them.
If it turns out that the minor belongs to a different connection, or a
different volume number in the same connection, that configuration
request is invalid.

Signed-off-by: Philipp Reisner <philipp.reisner@linbit.com>
Signed-off-by: Lars Ellenberg <lars.ellenberg@linbit.com>