IB/cma: Add net_dev and private data checks to RDMA CM

Instead of relying on a the ib_cm module to check an incoming CM request's
private data header, add these checks to the RDMA CM module. This allows a
following patch to to clean up the ib_cm interface and remove the code that
looks into the private headers. It will also allow supporting namespaces in
RDMA CM by making these checks namespace aware later on.

Signed-off-by: Haggai Eran <haggaie@mellanox.com>
Signed-off-by: Doug Ledford <dledford@redhat.com>

diff --cc drivers/infiniband/core/cma.c
Simple merge