drbd: use clear_bit_unlock() where appropriate

Some open-coded clear_bit(); smp_mb__after_clear_bit();
should in fact have been smp_mb__before_clear_bit(); clear_bit();

Instead, use clear_bit_unlock() to annotate the intention,
and have it do the right thing.

Signed-off-by: Philipp Reisner <philipp.reisner@linbit.com>
Signed-off-by: Lars Ellenberg <lars.ellenberg@linbit.com>