[XFS] remove most calls to VN_RELE

Most VN_RELE calls either directly contain a XFS_ITOV or have the
corresponding xfs_inode already in scope. Use the IRELE helper instead of
VN_RELE to clarify the code. With a little more work we can kill VN_RELE
altogether and define IRELE in terms of iput directly.

SGI-PV: 976035
SGI-Modid: xfs-linux-melb:xfs-kern:30710a

Signed-off-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@infradead.org>
Signed-off-by: Lachlan McIlroy <lachlan@sgi.com>