dm ioctl: introduce flag indicating uevent was generated

Set a new DM_UEVENT_GENERATED_FLAG when returning from ioctls to
indicate that a uevent was actually generated.  This tells the userspace
caller that it may need to wait for the event to be processed.

Signed-off-by: Peter Rajnoha <prajnoha@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Alasdair G Kergon <agk@redhat.com>