[NETFILTER]: xt_tables: add centralized error checking

Introduce new functions for common match/target checks (private data
size, valid hooks, valid tables and valid protocols) to get more consistent
error reporting and to avoid each module duplicating them.

Signed-off-by: Patrick McHardy <kaber@trash.net>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>