IPoIB: Fix kernel unaligned access on ia64

Fix misaligned access faults on ia64: never cast a misaligned
neighbour->ha + 4 pointer to union ib_gid type; pass a void * pointer
instead.  The memcpy was being optimized to use full word accesses
because the compiler thought that union ib_gid is always aligned.

The cast in IPOIB_GID_ARG is safe, since it is fixed to access each
byte separately.

Signed-off-by: Jack Morgenstein <jackm@mellanox.co.il>
Signed-off-by: Michael S. Tsirkin <mst@mellanox.co.il>
Signed-off-by: Roland Dreier <rolandd@cisco.com>