[media] dvb_usb_v2: do not free resources until delayed init is done

It was possible to free resources by unloading module while
initialization was still ongoing on delayed work.

Use PID to make decision on .disconnect() if caller is our
work or some other as work also calls .disconnect() in error
case. There could be better solution still...

Signed-off-by: Antti Palosaari <crope@iki.fi>
Signed-off-by: Mauro Carvalho Chehab <mchehab@redhat.com>