dccp: List management for new feature negotiation

This adds list fields and list management functions for the new feature
negotiation implementation. The new code is kept in parallel to the old
code, until removed at the end of the patch set.

Thanks to Arnaldo for suggestions to improve the code.

Signed-off-by: Gerrit Renker <gerrit@erg.abdn.ac.uk>
Acked-by: Ian McDonald <ian.mcdonald@jandi.co.nz>