btrfs: fix several uncheck memory allocations

To make btrfs more stable, add several missing necessary memory allocation
checks, and when no memory, return proper errno.

We've checked that some of those -ENOMEM errors will be returned to
userspace, and some will be catched by BUG_ON() in the upper callers,
and none will be ignored silently.

Signed-off-by: Liu Bo <liubo2009@cn.fujitsu.com>
Signed-off-by: Chris Mason <chris.mason@oracle.com>