libceph: isolate other message data fields

Define ceph_msg_data_set_pagelist(), ceph_msg_data_set_bio(), and
ceph_msg_data_set_trail() to clearly abstract the assignment of the
remaining data-related fields in a ceph message structure.  Use the
new functions in the osd client and mds client.

This partially resolves:
    http://tracker.ceph.com/issues/4263

Signed-off-by: Alex Elder <elder@inktank.com>
Reviewed-by: Josh Durgin <josh.durgin@inktank.com>