rbd: decrement obj request count when deleting

Decrement the obj_request_count value when deleting an object
request from its image request's list.  Rearrange a few lines
in the surrounding code.

This resolves:
    http://tracker.ceph.com/issues/3940

Signed-off-by: Alex Elder <elder@inktank.com>
Reviewed-by: Josh Durgin <josh.durgin@inktank.com>