gre: get rid of ipgre_lock

As RTNL is held while doing tunnels inserts and deletes, we can remove
ipgre_lock spinlock. My initial RCU conversion was conservative and
converted the rwlock to spinlock, with no RTNL requirement.

Use appropriate rcu annotations and modern lockdep checks as well.

Signed-off-by: Eric Dumazet <eric.dumazet@gmail.com>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>