exportfs: clear DISCONNECTED on all parents sooner

Once we've found any connected parent, we know all our parents are
connected--that's true even if there's a concurrent rename.  May as well
clear them all at once and be done with it.

Reviewed-by: Cristoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>
Signed-off-by: J. Bruce Fields <bfields@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Al Viro <viro@zeniv.linux.org.uk>