netfilter: hashlimit: byte-based limit mode

can be used e.g. for ingress traffic policing or
to detect when a host/port consumes more bandwidth than expected.

This is done by optionally making cost to mean
"cost per 16-byte-chunk-of-data" instead of "cost per packet".

Signed-off-by: Florian Westphal <fw@strlen.de>
Signed-off-by: Pablo Neira Ayuso <pablo@netfilter.org>